You are heard Slyder my friend. I agree that women can be man bashers just as men can be misogynists...

I also hear you Ali - about the line... I actually am not sure you can have it both ways either. I couldn't agree to a c/section just because my partner wanted it for me or thought it were best. I would hope he would trust my wisdom & knowledge of my body...

When I say birth is womens business I don't mean it has to exclude men. Just that it is a rite of passage for women. Men can beautifully join with that as they support emotionally and spiritually a woman birthing their child... But ultimately it is the woman's body that is birthing so she needs to feel her decisions are honoured and heard.