Thanks so much RhiChiChi - Maybe after a talk with my OB I will feel more inclined to go one way or another. My appointment is in Oct

Gosh maybe it's just the pregnancy hormonees but I am overwhelmed by all the support I have recieved - thank you all so much it means so much to me that everyone is being so encouraging and positive. It makes me feel empowered to know that I am the master of my own destiny.....Oh dear, I sound like an extra from Starwars! If people at work haven't already guessed i'm pregnant they will soon know when they look in the corner and see the fat lady blubbering at her computer