Oh I am so sorry you are going thru all this.

A few things to note about the breasts feeding is that cs babies get extra fluid while you are in surgery as they are making sure you are well hydrated. Where as in a natural birth you may have been off your food and water for hours or days. These cs babies tend to loss more weight. But see its an artificial weight to begin with. So please write that bit down cause in the post surgery haze when there are nurses telling you your milk hasn't come in. You can smile nicely say thank you and go home knowing every thing is ok!!


Also for ziggy getting the slops. Yes it's true in some ways for sure. I can't make that go away but I can say the he will also get so much more than your ds ever got as a baby. As ziggy will have three people loving him from the minute he is born. And he will have a big brother. Also he gets a calm second time mummy. So much more sure of herself than a first time mummy. So much quicker to respond to her baby

These are things that we underestimate. But I assure you ziggy is not worse off. Different yes but not worse off!

Hugs. I wish I could take some pain away.