t is annoying us more then anything. Making us more determend to keep going with it as she wants us to give up if its to hard but how can you when kids are involved.....
It was good when me and DP got together as we were all civial to each other and so on but then she pulled an AVO out becoz she and DP had a huge argument...(we asked if we could have DSS for an hour on "her" Weekend to have family photos done.She agreed when we picked DSS up for His 2hr contact and wen we took him back to her she said no she didnt want to do it so DP got abit upset becoz she said it was an incovient for her. We said we would pik him up and drop him bak to whereever she was but not it was an incoviece for her) anyway there was yelling on both sides actually it was her and her parents all up against DP and 2 days later DP was served with an AVO
We fought the AVO and took it to court and we won The magistrate found EXwife Lying under oath and told her that he found her to be Multipitive(sp) person and untrustworthy and that she had smartin her act up ...... so that could be why shes gone the way she has Ihave never thougth of that before hmmmmmm

anyway it would be nice if we could all get along for DSS sake but we dont see that happening anytime soon

Barbie up - there isnt any hours here and there Most visits thro the week are over night stays at the moment we have 2 hours every 2nd thursday and every 2nd w/end sat10am till sun 6pm and the thursday night visit is a pain aas he just doesnt get enough time and becomes really upset when we take him back to his mother...
Exwife Doesnt do any pik up or drop offs its all us as we didnt want to inconvient her having to drive anywhere
Only half days we are asking for are DSS,DD,DS birthday so 3 days a year as we think its DSS "right" to be able to spend his brother and sisters birthday with them just like he gets to spend all day with his sister (Mothers daughter). and regarding DSS birthday I dont think 2 hours (wat we see him for now) is enough to spend with him...
We worked with mediators on the hours we have put forward as we didnt want to ask for to much for DSS age group (recomended 3 nights a week) We are asking 5 nights a fortnight As we were goin to ask for 50% but everyone has told us they are not ready for 50% visits till about the age 8.
And we have also done school pick up and drop off times as we want this to go thro for a few years till he is at the age where he wants more so that way we dont have to go back to court in 2 years time when he starts school and change it all on him again

Hoobley yeah she does act like a 14 yr old She is only 12mths younger then you and i... you would think that at 26 she would be more mutture(sp)

Anyway hopefully things will be sorted in november and DSS will get wat he has been asking for...

Sarah