IMHO i wouldnt agree to that either.

The weekends visits are fine ect and the school holidays yep and the birthdays

But i think that mid week stuff is alot of farting around and it is a massive inconvience. He is young and its alot of movement for a young child.

As well as he is at the age where he is going to start playing parents off against each other, which could factor into wanting to see you guys more cause you would more then likely have something planned for time with him, whereas his mother doesnt. You are a novelty to him. Mum is the big bad meanie who does most of the displining etc.

My eldest daughter already tries to play us off, when i tell her off or she isnt allowed to do something she wants to its automatically I want my daddy.


BUT i do want to say i think it fabulous that you want to spend this amount of time with him!!! I really hope you can get a good agreement for your DSS