Hi Sarah *hugs* I agree with OurLux and Jodie, I've written threads too that have been missed for a day or two... especially on the weekend when it is quiet in here. Maybe just give it a little longer before leaving.

Regarding your dilemna: I was reluctant to post because as you can see I have 3 children and I was worried that you might not feel that I could empathsise. However a thought did strike me: sometimes you have to take a leap of faith... many of your fears will still have to be faced even if you fall pregnant. There will ALWAYS be uncertainties once you introduce a child into your life. IVF is just the start. Regarding your DH it seems to me that he is being fairly supportive and probably feels just as confused and frustrated as you do except being a guy (sorry to generalise) he might not have the words to express this. he certainly doesn't have the hormones to contend with

So please continue to seek support in here darl. Saturdays/Sundays are nortoriously quiet. And don't be frightened to take a leap of faith... nothing ventured nothing gained.