Possum,

I have to admit I cried when I heard your news. It must very difficult for you right now to pick yourself up and continue with daily life. I told DH about your situation and he was literally stumped. He said to send my "dear friend his heartfelt sympathy".

I was very heart broken when I mc in July this year. I spent days searching the internet for stories similar to me but with positive results.. that was also when I found bellybelly. I don't know how I did it but eventually I was able to speak to people about my experiences without bursting into tears so I guess somehow I have drawn on my inner strength to overcome my grief which I think most of us unconsciously do... but I take one day at a time and I like to keep things to myself until I feel I can speak to people in a more composed manner. DH knows this and pretty much helped me become a temporary hermit...lol...

Take care