AAArrrrrggggggg! I reckon I have heard just about every line in the world to tick someone off when they are TTC...
My number one P***-me-off question was..."When are you going to let [DH] be a Dad? We all know he wants that." As if I was trying to stop it happening!!It is obviously all my fault that I am a heartless b*** who is stopping his dream coming true. And this coming from someone who had trouble TTC themselves.
Also on my list is "so, how long have you guys been married now?" [when ppl talking about others being pg and obviously meaning are we trying yet, with thoughtful expression on their face. calculating if we should be trying by now.]
Another one.. this from my mum who didnt realise we were trying and having a hard time " you shouldnt leave it too long dear, because you know your grandmother and I went through early menapause so you probably will too." Talk about put panic into me!!
And I cant even enjoy a cuddle with someone elses bub without ppl saying "isn't this making you clucky?? When do you think you will be ready?"
I guess I could avoid some of these comments if it was public knowledge that we are having trouble but I dont want to advertise it! Why oh why cant people think before they open their mouths?