Hi SaraJane,
I am so glad you are being so positive (it's all over now.... I can move on).
From what I went through with my m/c it was worse than my two labours. But I can say that every labour is different.

With TTC you can start trying when you feel ready. I have been told that it is best to wait till you have 1-3 AF's to make sure every thing is OK but that is after a missed m/c plus a D&C.
Good luck TTC I hope to see a BFP soon

Take care
Chris