Nobody in my family has been through this and it meant that after the first m/c, nobody really knew how to act around me which drove me bananas. So this time around we didn't really say anything straight away, but that doesn't feel fair either. Vicious circle.
I know that feeling so well. I remember when my nephew was handed over to me, there were these glances everywhere, like people were worried they'd break me. (mind you nobody thought to not have his 1st birthday party on my EDD ) I feel like nobody, especially in DHs family, understands just how precious this makes our little girl. They call us overprotective. I call them *********s.

As much as it feels like they're not, the odds are actually on your side for every pregnancy. Most pregnancies survive and are OK. I had to tell myself this a thousand times every hour when pregnant with DD, because when you've been on the bad side of the odds, it's so hard to believe that you'll be on the other side.

And it sucks, but I fully expect to have another m/c. That's a crappy place to be, but at the same time I just think I'm being realistic.