Hi Lucy

Firstly - Olivia is just beautiful! I dont blame you for being besotted. I LOVE that groovy little purple suit!!

Secondly thank you for helping me, as I'm sure many girls on this site to look positively at the fact a bub really can happen after bad luck. Only too easily we can look at the 'babyless' picture of us after a loss...but people like you really help us to look at the bigger (more positive) picture.

Something else wonderful women like you help me realise is to not be jealous or or confronted by every pregnant stomach I see. For all I know they are women like you who HAVE suffered loss...I shouldnt assume they are just cruising through a pregnancy. I shouldnt assume they havent suffered a near identical loss experience to me. I thank you for this dose of perspective!!

I look forward to hearing more about you

;-) Pukeko