oh my god.

as all the other posters have said, you need to be able to make the decisions that affect your body, during your labour. i think your dh needs to grow up and get his head out of his backside.

he had no right putting the guilties on you, and i think maybe you need to set some boundaries in place.

sorry you're going through this chickie, i have an extremely supportive dp, so i have no experience in what you are going through, i just know that you don't have to.

good luck with everything xxoo