Holy crap Possum, just went back through the posts! Darling I'm so sorry, it's so freaking scary! I had that big bleed and it was clotty, then dates were out by 5 days and tiger had a slow heartbeat at 6 weeks, the tech then (grrrr) basically told me to prepare to miscarry, and everything has turned out to be ok. For all the women that have scary stuff happen, there will be lots who will be ok, there is no reason why you wouldn't be in the ok group. Thinking of you hon xo