Just wanted to check back in and see how things were going with you and your DW. Really hope that you had a chance to talk with her about you feelings and emotions- i think alot of men leave the emotional feelings out of conversations with their partners.

TMI*** but my GP suggested at about 20 weeks to avoid perenial tearing during labour that a nice massage of the area every night with some cream or oil can help stretch the area a little and soften it up. of course when you get a huge belly its hard to see down there let alone massage it, so maybe this could be a job for you???

Also Dont want to rub it in but maybe it may give you something to look forward to... As this is the last 5 weeks of our preg journey (this time round) my GP suggested yesterday we actually try DTD as much as possible to try and give things a kick start . Well My DP saw this a s a HUGE GREEN LIGHT... Ever since he has been telling me The doc said if you want to hurry things up we have to do it... Think next time i'll see the GP alone... HEHEHE

Well hoping thinga are sorting them selves out if not you can always look forward to the end when she'll want your help to kick things off...