This is something I am struggling with right now. I'm not sure if I want to find out the sex of the baby, but DH definitely does.

The thing is, I know that when they ask me if I want to know the sex, I'm not going to be able to say no.

Because this was an IVF pregnancy, it wasn't exactly a surprise so I think that we are going to keep the gender to ourselves and just tell people that we didn't find out. I have no issues with telling a white lie about that.

The good thing is, my family is all back home in Scotland so I won't have any awkward conversations with anyone about that and won't have to lie to anyone's faces. My mum keeps asking if I'm going to "find out what it is" and I keep telling her I know what it is - A BABY!!

Sue x