Hi Berry

Cheryl, your dr's said you can start ttc straight away, if you wish to?
My ob has said we should start trying again ASAP after my AF arrives so that they can be assured of a date just in case I do fall pg first time around. She suggested we use some form of birth control until that happens. But both DH and I agreed that after being told for more than 3 years that we are infertile, there was no way were going to use birth control. If it happened, it happened and the doctor's would just have to deal with it. With latest statistics saying that 50% of pregnancies in Australia are unplanned and most women who are not TTC often do not know/remember when their last cycle was anyway, the doctors must come across this all of the time. Besides, HCG levels can indicate the approx age of a baby. Sorry - rambling again. Anyway, we are throwing caution to the wind and just trying to resume a normal physical part of our relationship, come what may! Having said that, I sometimes wonder if I am pg again as my BBs have been sore on and for a week now and I seem to be getting very tired (and grumpy!) very early in the day and my appetite is crazy! But I think it's just my body playing tricks on me...

Good luck with your TWW. I too have been trying to work out what we did differently last November and as much as part of me thinks that a perfect re-creation of the events prior to ovulation will give us a better chance of a BFP, the logical part of me says that 1) we can never do a perfect re-creation and 2) there was nothing really special we did that cycle - in fact we had only BD'ed twice because of our busy travel schedules so when I did the POAS test I didn't think we had any chance at all!

Anyway, what I am trying to say is don't beat yourself up about not using the 'right positions', after all you should be having fun too. All of the FS say that regular loving sex is the best way of making a baby, so enjoy yourself!

xx