Teagz, I'm not sure when Jayvan's EDD is, but just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking of you and sending you massive hugs hun. I hope the day is as gentle and peaceful to you as possible
Dee, I pray that you get that BFP soon hun, I wish you all the very best in TTC. I know it's a very bumpy road, but I know it will be well worth it in the end
Cheryl, I had about 7 weeks off work after I lost Joshua, and often during those weeks I wondered if I would go back at all. One of my best friends who I work with told me recently that she didn't think I would come back. I almost didn't.
I don't know what it was but I really struggled to face up to everyone at work. I have been there for 15 years, and know everyone well. At the time, I guess I felt that I not only let myself down, but them as well. My psychologist didn't think I was ready to go back after 7 weeks, but I was starting to get a bit bored, so I went back. It was really hard, but after a few days I was OK. Take all the time you need, and go back when you're ready. I want to also wish you all the very best in TTC, I hope you get your miracle very soon
Rozzie, I'm glad you've had a nice day on Edward's first birthday. I know it would have been very emotional for you
Megan, I pray there is a little bubbie for you at the end of your 2WW, I'm sending you loads of sticky vibes and baby dust hun
To all our mummas in waiting, all the best with your pg and please remember to take it easy everyone .
To all our new mummas, I hope all is going well with your beautiful bubs
Well, AFM, I feel I need to take some time off BB for a while. For the last couple of weeks I've been feeling quite emotional and going back over a lot of things when I was pg with Joshua. I've just completed his little album by adding a few photos of when I was pg with him, it is now complete.
I will still check up on all of you, but not sure if I'll have the energy to post. I will be however, eagerly watching out for those beautiful and exciting BFP! Teagz, Megan, Lan, Cheryl, Dee I'm praying for all of you girls, sending you all the stickiest baby vibes I can muster!!!
I will let you know when my transfer is in June, keep your fingers and toes crossed for me girls.
Oh Beata
You have made me cry again! I feel so... I don't know... happy and sad at the same time. Sad that you have finally finished Joshua's album and you don't have your little boy to hold in your arms, and happy that you're having a transfer in June which is so close. I understand what you mean about not having the strength to post some days. Thank you so much for extending your wonderful hand of support to me. I truly hope that you will be holding your earth baby in your arms very soon
Hey Cheryl, now you have made me all emotional again LOL!!!! You know exactly how I feel. It's so strange, as for a long time after I lost Joshua I didn't mind seeing pg women, little babiest etc. Now, I get really emotional. I look at 3 month olds and wonder what Joshua would have looked like now. I look at pg women and wonder how much they appreciate their babies and their pg. I really think I'm going backwards here!!!
I think it's also because in just a few weeks time I will be starting yet another journey, almost 12 months to the date when I did my first IVF round. And the other thing is also, that my little embie is from the same batch as Joshua, so I can't help but wonder if I am successful in my second attempt, and I have a boy, how much will he remind me of Joshua??? I guess at the end of the day, I will always be sad that my little man isn't here with me, no matter how many, if any, children I have.
Don't worry hun, I will be around and will cheer you on, becasue I want to see all of us succeed and have our earth children. And I know we all will!!
And BTW, your doc's advice on the best and quickest way of conceiving is the same one I got from my doc - go for gold ON REGULAR BASIS and have fun while you're at it! That way you make it enjoyable instread of stressful!!! Godd luck hun, I really hope it happens for you super fast.
Take care hun, big hugs.
Love B xxxx
Beata, I hope you are ok hun It can be so difficult at times. Take all the time you need and know that we are here if you need us. I will be thinking of you in June and praying that your transfer is successful
Cheryl, if I was in your shoes I would do the same thing, go for it and not bother with contraception at all! As you said the doc's deal with 'unexpected' pg, so they can work out the dates no prob. I really hope that you are up the duff hun! Praying for a very speedy BFP for you soon
Sending lots of baby dust around this thread
Thanks for all the support girls, I think we need a group hug
hey girlies, i'm just doing a quick post, sorry. BUt I do want to say Beata, I will miss you very much while you're on your BB siesta. I'll be thinking of you though, take it easy won't you??
I have just POAS, oh, about 10 minutes ago, because I've had some weird brownish bleeding since CD 20 (similar to what I had with Jayvan) and well, it seems all my children are meant to be surprises because I've just got a BFP!
DF doesn't want to tell anyone until I'm a week past missing my period... but I just had to tell you guys!
Oh I just don't know what to do with myself.. and Mum is due over in about an hour, I hate keeping secrets from her!
Beata, thinking of you at this time. I also did a similar thing and sometimes you just need to get your own head space worked out. We will miss you, you are such a positive person, but take all the time you need.
Teagz - wahoooo congratulations babe, I am so so happy for you. Wishing you a happy and healthy nine months. yippee
OMG Teagz!!! Congratulations hun that is awesome news!!!!! You sneaky thing, you were supposed to wait for me ha ha. I've no doubt waiting for your body to recover with all the nice natural herbs did you wonders. I wish you the stickiest, healthiest little bubba and I hope all goes very smoothly for you hun. Yeepee!!!!!!
Thank you so much for sharing your wonderful news with us, I am truly honoured to be one of the first hun I just knew we were gonna have a BFP soon around here, I felt it in my waters!!!
Megan, Cheryl and Sue, thanks very much for your lovely words. Sometimes you do have to take a little breather, but I ain't going anywhere girls, I'm always wishing you success whether you're TTC or about to have your bub!! Sue, you don't have long to go hun. I can't wait to see your beautiful little girl soon!!
Teagz, you 'said that' so calmly in your post, I couldn't believe it. Congratulations, that's fantastic news I pray for a happy and healthy 9-months ahead for you.
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Wishing you a happy and healthy nine months. yippee
that is awesome news!!!!! You sneaky thing, you were supposed to wait for me ha ha. I've no doubt waiting for your body to recover with all the nice natural herbs did you wonders. I wish you the stickiest, healthiest little bubba and I hope all goes very smoothly for you hun. Yeepee!!!!!!
I just knew we were gonna have a BFP soon around here, I felt it in my waters!!!
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