Jo - I would want to smash her too!! What a self possessed cow! Sometimes I wonder whether we are too critical of people that have never experienced the loss of a child, but she was just WRONG, WRONG, WRONG!!!!!!! Come and be wrapped in our arms.

Rozzie - I know what you mean, I went to our library today to pick up DVD's for DS, and I seen an old client reading a magazine. I instantly remembered the last time we spoke as I was so excited to tell her we were having another baby, I just quickly diverted my path and avoided her, as I knew she would ask about the 'baby'. It just brings back sooo much pain.

I have finally finished digging up my new garden, am taking a break tomorrow and then planting out, I am so excited!!

Mrs Robbo I have taken liberty from Ethan's idea, I hope that is OK. It really hit home when you said you were getting your dad to make a sign for Charlie's garden.....I have decided I too would like to have a sign made up for Cooper, as this really is HIS garden.

Hi too everyone else, I have been a bit slack on the facebook front, I will endeavour to get it sorted soon!