I'm struggling to workout if Greer needs a feed or just needs to cry. She seems to be feeding every hour and a half. I try to work out if it has built up to a cry and therefore maybe needs a feed. When I hold her she seems to root all the time for a feed and will contently feed when she finds the boob- note I am not giving it to her, she is rooting and finding it, she then settles and minutes later is back to crying. I have a night alone with the two kids tonight and do not know how I am going to handle it if she is fussing all day today.
Beatrix I know you have said that you have had counselling with DH, but have the two of you talked about why he is grumpy. My DH is grumpy and a lot lately too and there are 2 issues. One is me saying I wish I had his life and I'm going to be the man in my next life and the other is that he realy wants to have as he put it "a vacation from life with me". He is missing the pre children relationship. Is there a chance you could arrange for someone to have the kids, go out for a coffee and talk about how you are feeling?
Gotta go to deal with this screaming child, going to try lying down with her.