All I can say is OMG, you should be so proud that you have managed to overcome SO much to even consider a VB again after everything!
If you want my opinion (and this is from a person who has had a successful VB with induction and never a c-sec), then I would probably go for a c-sec. You have had 3 separate obs all recommend it and after such a horrific time, I personally could not find the courage to even consider going back for a VB.
You said you have done the research so you know what both options entail. Again, you are an amazingly strong woman to even contemplate another VB IMO. Do what feels right for you and please, don't let anyone pressure you into doing something you aren't sure about.
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