Hi Michelle,

Just so you know i consider that a loss is a devastating loss it doesnt matter how far along the pregnancy was. Just because i was so far along everybody knew about it. I am glad for that now because Katelyn has touched so many peoples lives. They didnt know her and they didnt see her and cuddle her like we did but lots of people were still very sad that she was gone.

I do have a memory box and one of my other posts above i shared the things that i have done. Also my aunty has made me a cross stitch and is sending it down so that is really nice.

Family loss is hard. I lost my grandad in January. We were very close and he was 81. He had been ill so it wasnt unexpected but it was very sudden in the end. I was lucky that before he was made unconcious for treatment we got to talk to him. I told him that i loved him and he was the first person to know (aside from me and dh) that we were expecting his great grandchild (i had only know for 5 days myself at this point). So i think that Katelyn is up there with him now. I know he was a really fantastic grandad to me and im sure he is looking after her very well for me now.

Thanks for the inkdust: i am now sending some back to you.

Love Sarah