I'm in an awkward situation. We didn't find out last time and weren't going to this time. We accidentally found out due to all the genetic testing we had done. I know what XX and XY mean and it was written on some forms and a doctor mentioned it as well.

So now we know.

I was telling people that we asked not to know, which is true. But then DH told people that we know, but hasn't said what it is. I'm really not comfortable with the situation that we are now in.

It is kind of nice knowing, but it is hard to keep it a secret.