Some people when they ask me if I know what I'm having give me the poops, I don't know why I guess its the ones who don't have children. One of my managers said (after I told her I was expecting a girl) 'Oh gawd I reckon I'd have a nervous breakdown if I had a girl' I just looked at her thinking 'what? what is wrong with you!?'. She has no children and isn't really interested in having them either. And can be a bit rude if I'm not feeling well at work.

But when the 'mothers' at work ask me I get a big hug, or a huge beaming smile or they get all excited. Like I do when I hear a friend has found out the sex and is expecting either.

I also have this issue with the belly rubbing. I don't mind some people doing it, but others I snap at 'My boobs have grown too, do you wanna rub them?' 'Are you going to ask me first next time or just grope whenever you see my stomach?' I don't know I just get different feelings for certain people.

Some people when they ask me what I'm having I'll say 'Yes, found out last week, it's a kitten'

But yes this time I am expecting a little pink bundle