crumpet, I'm the same in regards to the late-April belly buddies thread - two more babies have been born from mine, so everyone's getting all excited where I'm getting upset that I won't be holding a baby in a few weeks. Before that, they were wondering who would be first... I went away from the computer for a little cry before coming back and reminding them whoever's baby was next would be the second I think I'll have a nice big breakdown on Ianto's due date (23rd April)
its hard isnt it...... im very lucky the girls are great but i dont want Gus to be forgotten in the group thats for sure....like u he was the first born, just coz he didnt survive doesnt mean it doesnt count!! im sure the girls will be great about it though, its just my mind doing its usual "wondering"
ianto was due the day before my birthday!
Crumpet & Teni - big break downs on EDDs are fine and I actually encourage them! It's a hard day to work towards, with so many feelings to process. Sometimes the anticipation of the day can be harder than the day itself turns out to be. And sometimes not. Just be gentle with yourselves and take care. My best recommendation - don't put too many expectations on yourself for the day, and just let it happen rather than having a "plan". I am usually a plan sort of girl, but I have had no plans, just some general ideas and what you end up doing will be perfect on the day for you. This my friends, is really hard stuff.

You are both a lot braver than me, I have never had the courage to join a belly buddies group and I don't expect to either.
thanks dory.....
im defiantly not planing anything, i feel sorry for Dh coz its his birthday the day after Gus was due, happy birthday to him....... i dare say its going to be hell but ill deal with it as best i can i suppose