Gigi - thankyou. Every day is a day to celecrate your love - I like that a lot, it resonnates with me, becuase I agree. I don't think you are a victim at all, just your priorities have changed. Don't be so hard on yourself and rest up! I am getting much better at that - its just practise. It is hard to put yourself first isn't it? Hope you are not so tired today.