Tei, firstly, on behalf of all the women who you will deal with, thankyou, and congratulatons for "going out there" and getting info.

Dont know how much this will help, but.....

the hospitals should keep the pregnant and waiting mums in a different area to the "early pregnancy units" - i was losing my baby and was sitting in a waiting area with big full round tummies! HELL

for me, it was hard that no-one really knew i was pregnant the first time around. so the second time i tild a few people - the first time i had to just basically carry on like nothing had happened! and my selfish, insensitive sod of a manager was preg at the time too, and even though she knew i had lost a baby she was still going on with her "dont push the pregnant woman!!" and "i am allowed to do this, i am preg!" comments ALL DAY LONG. I used to be friends with her but have absolutely no respect left!!

not sure what else you are after?