Toddler In Coma After Choking On A Grape
Abigail Wilson and David Jenkins were sharing a meal with their two-year old Jacob Jenkins at a Pizza Hut Restaurant in Hartlepool Marina on Friday, October 9th when a piece of fruit became lodged in the toddler’s throat.
Today, Jacob remains in a medically induced coma.
According to Wilson, her son was “gone” for around 30 minutes.
During the ordeal, Jacob’s heart stopped but paramedics were eventually able to restart it.
While they were able to restart his heart, a grape had to be removed from his throat with surgical scissors.
Paramedics acted quickly to restart his heart and remove the grape while transporting him by an air ambulance to the hospital.
Jenkins and Wilson quickly sought help for their son, calling the paramedics as well as seeking help from medics at the nearby cinema.
They were touched by how many stepped in to help. Jacob’s mother appreciated everyone’s efforts, despite the grape needing to be removed by paramedics, saying, “And I just want to say thank you to the staff in Pizza Hut in particular the young girl who was the first aider and the two men from Vue cinema, staff at the Great North Air Ambulance, the James Cook Univeristy Hospital and the RVI.”
Wilson spoke with the local paper where she shared sobering news about her son’s condition, “Doctors have told us if he does wake up he won’t be the same little boy we knew.”
“It’s really hard, but we are just trying our best to stay strong for him.”
Jacob will be tested Thursday to see if he can be woken from the coma, to see if he can pull through the ordeal.
While the future is still very uncertain, Wilson and Jenkins have been overwhelmed by support. A GoFundMe account was set up to help them with domestic bills as they remain by Jacob’s bedside. Their account quickly passed £3,700 from over 121 donors. They now have nearly £5,000 from over 167 donors.
Toddler Eating Safety
Some days with toddlers feel like you’re constantly on alert, hoping to keep them safe as they learn and explore the world around them. One moment you’re worrying about them, the next moment you think you can be confident in their new found skills. Life with toddlers can be quite the emotional and physical roller coaster.
By the time many toddlers are over the age of two, most have been eating for at least 18 months. Many have a mouth full of teeth and can conquer nearly any food. As we move away from easy to swallow purees and opt for regular table foods, it’s difficult to navigate when and how to allow them to explore new foods.
Fruits are a favorite for toddlers, and they’re often easy to chew. Once your little one has a mouthful of teeth, it’s hard to imagine that a grape would be difficult to manage. While toddlers can often chew them just fine, their size, shape and texture make it possible for even the best eater to accidently swallow grapes whole – which can lead to the fruit being lodged in the throat.
For this reason, it’s recommended to cut spherical shaped foods and hard foods in half, or into sizes too small to become lodged – less than half of an inch. Common foods that need to be cut or kept away from children under four years of age include:
- Grapes
- Hot Dogs
- Seeds and Nuts
- Chunks of meat and cheese
- Chunks of peanut or nut butters
- Popcorn
- Hard candies and gum
- Chunks of raw vegetables
Children should also be seated and supervised during meal and snack times. It’s also important to keep an eye on well-meaning older children who might share toys or food with infants and toddlers.
Every parent ensures they have an eye on their children and gives them foods they’ve seen their child handle well before. But unfortunately, unexpected events happen. Some parents find reassurance in obtaining CPR and First Aid training, which includes learning the Heimlich maneuver for children.
In this situation, Jenkins and Wilson, and those around them, did all they could to help Jacob during the unexpected. Jenkins says, “Anyone who knows Jacob knows he is a strong, determined, stubborn little boy and I hope he uses these qualities to pull through for us …we aren’t asking for miracles, we don’t expect perfection, we just want him to stay with us.”
Thanking those supporting the family, he says, “Thank you all still for every word, every picture and every prayer. So, so proud to be from Hartlepool, you bunch of amazing people.”
Update: Since publishing this article, sadly Jacob has passed away. Our deepest condolences to the Jenkins family.
Recommended Reading: Take A Baby First Aid Course – Why, How and Where.
First, I send my thoughts and prayers to this family. No one can imagine their heartache at having a simple accident like this turn to a tragedy. I am particularly grateful to this family for reiterating how things can change for a 2 yr old we have all seen manage things in our households. My grandson just recently choked on a tiny fruit snack while riding in the car with his father, a paramedic. Dad reached behind to the back seat to grab the snack and actually hit the car in the next lane. Everyone was fine but he was very shook up. I’m a nurse and I had to rethink everything I do when my grandson comes to visit. I am grateful though so very sad this family had to share their story. I hope your little boy uses his 2 yr old self to pull through.
In my thoughts and prayers
Il be thinking of Lil Jacob tomorrow, this is something you just think wouldn’t happen because they have all teeth. Be strong J
It’s very sad when you hear of a child dying from eating a food that should be cut up before serving it to a child , especially that young . It could cost them their life like this child , parents need to take heed and cut foods up before giving it to their little ones . Sometimes they think their children r older than what they are and can handle it , but it’s tragic when the parent doesn’t think what could happen . My sister’s grand baby’s mother does this all the time but won’t listen to anyone when they tell she should cut the grape up in pieces . She did this just the other day and I told her , omg he’s going to choke on it . She said with an authority like voice . ” oh no he chews them right up , I was shocked that she doesn’t have better sense, but she thinks she’s always right on everything when it comes to her baby , she has been told by my sister and gets nasty about it saying ” I know how to bring up my baby . What an idiot . She also gave him a piece of steak whole without cutting it , I couldn’t believe it , she was talked to many times and never listens . And was told it might cost her her sons life , he’s under 2 yrs old . If something happens to him while she feeds him , she should be brought up on chargers if something happens to him .