I will be back to read the article because i've got a cake to make but i just have to say...

When DS1 was 6 months or so and i started thinking about havng another one the thought that i could never love another child the same as him crossed my mind plenty.

But i always wanted to have another one so DS1 would have a sibling.

Today my DS2 turns 1 and i must say that i am proud of myself for getting through the first year of being the mother to TWO beautiful boys. I think i've done a pretty good job at showing them equally the same amount of love and attention and have such happy little boys for being able to do this.

What i'm saying is yes the thought is overwhelming but it's amazing the strength we have as a human being/mother and you will be able to do it. It can have it's difficult times but during and after you always look at your precious gifts and think to yourself how you'd never ever change a thing.

You will make the right choice for you and your family i'm sure