Just wanted to share- I actually said to my ds one day when dd was 2 months old "stop acting like a 2 year old!" he didn't even turn two for another month oh dear... I did forget for a little while that he was still a baby too. But those first few months pass so very quickly, and things settle again.

Also, a good friend of mine told me this and it ramg so true- your second or subsequent will never have all your attention 24/7 the way your first did. So you can't feel too bad that our first doesn't have all your attention anymore, because your second never will, and it won't do them any harm