After reading that i have realised i could very well be the women writting that! I loved my DD1 soooooo much, she was my everything, then i had DD2, while i still loved DD1 she did seem to be going out of her way to annoy me. Many people said it was attention seeking but i didnt believe it. After reading that, I now know that it was! I feel so horrible, i snap at her as well and then feel so horrible that when she is asleep ill hop into bed with her and cuddle, to try and make it up to her for being cranky with her. I will try and make more of an effort to show her how special she is to me.