I agree with you Slyder that this is about men & of course you have a right to comment. I for one am glad you are. I don't see thogh that women are making men seem dopey my love!
Just that some women find their Men not as engaged in the education of the birthing process & this is the topic.

You are. You are knowledgeable, compassionate and present. You rock. But somne men are not engaged in the process - they rock in otherways - just not in this way...

I though can see why you are defending Manhood - & I would hope that no one is generalising - just discussing their experiences with their particular Men...