Oh FJ, you poor thing. It's so hard without support. Sometimes when men (and women i guess) think that they may be a little to blame, they get very defensive of ideas on how to fix things.

Maybe he needs some time to think about it. And perhaps ask him, if he is not willing to try what the experts recommend, then what is his solution? You are ready to try anything, but you NEED to do SOMETHING and you need his help.