once the kids are asleep we will talk again. I know I wont be able to get though it all with out crying so I would rather wait till they have gone to bed. He didn't even hear me out. We can adjust the suggestions to suit us more but he needs to realise that yes he has a routein for them as far as bed goes, its not helping me in the mornings.

I think he just needs to realise that he has grown up, its now our children's turn & we need to provide whats going to be best for them to grow up right. sacrifices will need to be made on both our part.