Sushee, I think we got caught up with the fulfilment thing when another poster brought it into the fray a few pages back and we've been fleshing that one out WRT to the statement ever since! In a good way, I think - it's been very interesting and stimulating conversation ever since
ETA: I meant 'resilience' in the psychological way, I should have clarified - it's a term used in personality assessment. I didn't mean it as a value judgment - very different things and I'll clarify it next time