Hi Numa,

No that is great advice and what it is I am trying to follow at the moment. I am starting to try a few new things (Like join the SES) to see if I can find some other things I am interested in. I have a lot of loving family and friends (unfortunately they are my DW family and mutual friends) that I am able to talk to or be around when I am feeling low. I have decided to step back and give her all the space she needs, but also be around or nearby is she needs me. I am going to wait for her to want to talk about what is going on instead of bringing it up all the time myself.

Once again thanks for all the advice offered and I will keep you updated of how things go. Hopefully one day in the near future I can actually post that we have gone back to trying to have a baby and also post that we are having a baby

VR