Oh VR, I hope to hear that you're back to TTC and having a baby in the future too, and that your DW is able to feel better soon. It's so difficult for you both.

I really hope in the space that your DW needs that she is able to turn to you. And perhaps the space away from TTC for now turns out to be the best thing for your relationship!

SES sounds like a great pursuit - I know that emergency service people form tight-knit, close communities, and often have great friendships with one another so it's sounds like just the thing.

Good luck with everything, and I really hope and look forward to hearing of better times ahead for you. You've got a great perspective on everything, despite the difficulty of it all, and I'm sure it will lead things right for you

Miss C