Hi Sarah,

Your dream actually sounds a bit similar to one of mine, in that we were both trying to save people. In my dream 2 people died. I couldn't see the first person, but the 2nd one was my DH, and I tried to do everything I could to save them (CPR, mouth to mouth etc) but nothing would work. I felt quite distressed when I woke up actually. I think my dreams lately relate back to my miscarriages a lot, feeling that I should have been able to save my babies somehow.

I guess it'll take time for us to come to terms with our losses, and dreams are just one of the ways that our minds work through the grief. Maybe there is something to the whole saving people thing, as we both had quite similar dreams it seems.

Hope you are having a better day today.

Zola, the dream I had last night was that one of my cats 'stole' my pg and gave birth to my baby as a kitten (and I was even trying to feed it LOL) so I was pretty sure straight away that it had been a dream LOL. But yeah, some of them, where you dream that you have a baby in your arms can be pretty distressing when you wake up and realise that it's not real. I haven't heard from the hospital again yet. I sent them another letter last week, so maybe I'll hear back in another week or so. I'll let you know how it goes