I have the reverse problem. I am interested, but he isnt. Its EXTREMELY tough. When I am pg, I get HG so I am sick, exhausted and he tends to think that makes me fragile too.

When I am not pg - I am annoyingly fertile and could end up UTD making me sick, exhausted and extremely fragile. I can't take the pill because it makes me sick too. So his solution - just don't do it. Trust me to go and get UTD easy and prove him right. Ugh.

Thankfully for DH, I am more about the intimacy than the act. We havent dont it since the time we did it that got me pg, so thats saying something. First tri I was indifferent, now I am more keen, but getting stonewalled. I do try not to push because I know that he is worried for me and that doesnt help him get in the mood at all - but its very sweet and i cant help but appreciate it.

What helps though is those little things he does that show his love. Cuddles for no reason. Gifts of food every time he shops. Stroking my hair in bed. Not sure if it will help you guys, but here is hoping.