after reading everyones posts I just want to cry. It's not fair. I am the COMPLETE opposite. My Fiance has completely lost interest in having sex with me. We used to have one of the best sex lives I could ever ask for. We used to have sex almost every day. Than when I became pregnant I started to notice a change that happened gradually. In the beginning of my pregnancy our sex life only changed a little bit and when I asked if it was because I was pregnant he just said he was tired. As I progressed through my pregnancy more and more he was "tired". I have even walked in on him masterbatng (embarrasing) or looking at porn on our computer. Keep in mind my fiance is not a pervert at all. And he knows my take on porn is vulgar and demeaning to women. I have even confronted him and told him I feel really insecure now because of this. I have even put on some lingerie. He has never had the guts to say to me it is because I am pregnant. He just says he is not in the mood. It is causing so many problems between us. It hurts to know he would rather look at porn than make love to me. I feel unattractive and a little unloved.