Hi Gage - I just wanted to say from my perspective, the more I feel presure to have sex the more I do not want it. Some women breeze through pregnancy, and others suffer alot. Imagine being presured to have sex when you feel like you are going to throw up, have heart burn, back pain, cramps, feel like you have the flu, and are so tired you feel like you have just run a marathon. Even if you only have a couple of symptons, it can be very hard to feel like sex. My feelings are -without trying to be too blunt, that spending sometime plesuring your self and concentrating on affection only without the sex for a few months, may really help your relationship. Just a thought.