Hello everyone

Tildy, I was in Melbourne on Thurs & Fri. I used to LOVE Melbourne but unhappily I've had to go to there shortly after both my miscarriage and Hamish's birth so now I get such a horrible vibe from the place.

Helen, I would go. And I can say this because I'm excellent at dispensing advice that I have trouble taking myself. We will always be scared, if not for one reason then another. But no matter how much we fear something, we can't stop it from happening anyway. So please consider going as it would give you a lovely holiday to look forward to and you must believe that your next little baby will be yours to keep.

Rozzie and Tildy, it's the magic 12wk for you guys next week. Can't wait to hear about your little bubs bouncing away at your ultrasounds.

And Katie, what a great ultrasound result. Did you get to see your little girl? How big is she now? Can they tell?

How are you going, Jo? Chugging along during the day and silently dying on the inside at night? I hope you are getting more peace at night. How are you coping with work?

Sue, I totally get the freaking out. To this day I still get a jolt when I see coloured discharge but hopefully as the weeks pass you'll be able to feel more confidence in your miracle baby.