i know its the lack of sleep and its a vicious cycle. DP gets enough sleep as he dosnt get up to Russell at all. however a big problem is his thought processes. we were out all day sat helping his dad move house then raced home so we could go out without russell for a few hours( it was fun and enjoyed it) but then he decided to **** off on me to hang out with my brother so then i snapped a gasket and we ended up fighting cos i wanted him to spend time with me while he could and he was not understanding. then russell was unsettled cos had a ff so was up all night and just wanted some sleep,butDP ****wit mate needed help moving and couldnt start till dp got there so instead of m,aking them wait while i got some sleep he left. and didnt come back till after 4pm.

then on monday he took my car knowing i needed it cos i refused to take him to work ( we share a car atm and he norm has it.) while he was being demanding and sarcastic. really stupid stunt as then had to get a lift out to work 45min hour drive o get my car. he picked up clothes monday night and have not heard from him since.

it all could have been avoided if hed been less preoccupied with what everyone else needed and taken a look in my direction and let me get some extra sleep in and de stress....

stupid stupid man- now i question whether its worth having him back despite him promising that when he comes back it will be the best its ever been