Defn judge others...esp when i hear comments like that.....
"tamika, don't you fu**ing cross that road you little b*tch".
....yer, yer, i know, i may not know what has gone on in that mothers life 24hrs beforehand, 1wk beforehand.....god knows what brings her to say such things to a little person, but i do judge. I will then go home and tell my DH or tell a close friend but i would never say anything to their face...

Ive been on the receiveng end though - and have been judged myself. I left my 3 girls in the car (winter time last year, May or June i think) and i ran into the bakery right outside my car to get a loaf of bread and milk. I noticed 2 women standing near my car smoking....i kept an eye on my car, paid for my bread and got in my car. I was asked 'are they your kids?'....'yes' i replied.....'you know its illegal to park and leave your kids in the car - esp around this area, we work for DOCS and if we see you do it again, we will report you'. I was speechless, and let me tell you i felt like the dirtiest, scumiest mother in the world. I went home to DH and literally bawled. I felt so ashamed of myself, ashamed of what those people thought of me, ashamed that i DID leave my children in the car for albeit 40 seconds, i felt ashamed that the good, proud, sensibble mother i am, was not displayed that day in society.....i do keep this experience in mind when i see the behaviour of other mothers....but yes, i still do judge.....