Hey Sarah,

Our OB at the time said something to us how we must have been a very fertile couple! It was hard though...particularly thinking that we could conceive so quickly, yet suffer 2 losses in a row as well. We both thought how we would prefer to wait a little longer if it meant a healthy baby IYKWIM. It's not to say it will always be this way, so I try to tell myself that as much as we could conceive easily this time, it might not be the case for subsequent children. Obviously I hope it is, but you just never know. It's a pretty weird thing the ol' body! I always worried that it would be the opposite of course....that it would take forever.

I don't think I'd be too concerned about the fact that your AF is a bit rough ATM. The body does need time to adjust and it can take a while before things return to normal sometimes. I think it probably is a good way to look at AF - that your body is recuperating in readiness for a new little life, i.e. your body is doing what it needs to do to physically recover and prepare itself for the future. I think looking at it that way does help you emotionally as well. Obviously if you find yourself getting really concerned about it, or you feel that your cycles are all over the place for longer than what you would like, then it's always best to go and have a chat to your OB or specialist about it who can really point you in the right direction. But for now, I'd just try to look at it the way that you already are if you can.