Hi Pukeko,

Im so sorry for your loss. I have recently lost my daughter at 18 weeks gestation. My story is under Baby Lost - Heart Broken.

Im again sorry that you have to put up with insensitive people making such insensitive comments. Most people dont understand but be assured that we all know what you are going through and are here to support you whenever you need support or have a rant.

Please dont blame yourself for this. There is nothing that you could have done. You loved your baby and would have protected it if you could.

I know exactly what you mean about knowing if it will all work again. I was worried about the exact same thing. My doc said to me that my plumbing works. So i have tried to focus on this as a mantra whenever i feel down about TTC again.

I think that it is fantastic that you bought a charm for your bracelet. It is very important to have rituals in which to remember our lost babies.

Hope to see you around soon as i said we are all here for you.

Love Sarah