We had DS in a basinette by the bed, DP would get up and change DS then give him to me to feed him. It's was very much a both up at night thing with us in the early days. I had a while where I had to express due to nipple issues, so I could get up and express and DP would be up feeding DS. I didn't want DS in his own room, I wanted him right there next to us I was very sad when we put him in his own cot in his own room (at about 4 months and only about 2 metres from our room).