Oh Pish just came across this . You had been looking forward to you scan so much and were so excited, I'm so sorry that DH ruined that experience for you.
If you really do want to find out, can you sneak a look next time your at the OB?
I agree with the other posters, especially about the epi - it's your body, your the one that has to get the baby out. I would be having a quiet word with your Ob & widwives and let them know you do want the option of choice if YOU decide you do want an epi or any other form of pain relief you want at the time.
As my Ex-SIL once described childbirth.....it's like sh*tting a watermelon, I'd ask DH if he would like to do that without painkillers!!!
Back again as I just read your latest post....
I'm sure you two will sort it all out soon but still big I'm sure there isn't anyone who's posted here who hasn't wanted to grab their DH, DF, DP, DB by the shoulders and shake some sense into them at some stage Enjoy the rest of your pregnancy and the excitement of meeting your new bub, whether you decide to find out or wait.
Last edited by ~Phoenix~; December 8th, 2009 at 07:20 AM.
. You had been looking forward to you scan so much and were so excited, I'm so sorry that DH ruined that experience for you.
Enjoy the rest of your pregnancy and the excitement of meeting your new bub, whether you decide to find out or wait.
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