Zennie- some men really have no idea what it is to be a family, and by the sound of it your Partner needs some adjusting. The couselling helpe us in that way as basically the cousellor told my DH that what i was expecxting wasnt to much and he was being irresponsible. so yeah told him to pull his socs up. Maybe if you can get someone else apart from you to tell him what it is to be a dad it migt help. cause then its ust not you nagging. hugs to you hun