Are you wondering how to conceive a boy?
If so, you might be interested in finding out the various methods said to stack the odds in your favour, when it comes to conceiving a baby boy.
Be aware that various gender swaying theories have been around for decades.
These theories aren’t guaranteed for success and aren’t always backed by science (unlike some of our suggestions!).
But if you’re keen, it can’t hurt to try – you have a 50% chance either way!
At the end of the article, I’ve included details of a more recent book to be published, which is based on scientific research.
As far as BellyBelly is concerned, we believe the very best outcome is a healthy baby.
So it’s important to bear that in mind as you read about how to conceive a boy.
However, we do understand that couples around their world have their own personal reasons for wanting to try for a boy.
How To Conceive A Boy
Before we jump into the tips about how to conceive a boy, first, some important basics.
Male reproductive cells, or sperm, contain one of two chromosomes related to your baby’s sex.
For a girl, it will be X and a boy it will be Y.
Therefore, the sperm that fertilises the egg determines the sex of your baby.
Dr. Shettles, author of the best selling book, How to Choose the Sex of Your Baby, believes male and female sperm have a number of key differences.
Through research, Dr. Shettles found male sperm to be weaker, smaller and faster than female sperm.
He also discovered female sperm were more resilient, and were able to survive for longer periods inside a woman’s body.
So what can you do to favour male sperm fertilising your egg?
How To Conceive A Boy #1: Sex Positions
Dr Shettles believed deep penetration was important to give the boy sperm a head start.
With less difference to travel, the boy sperm would be able to out-swim the girl sperm, and find the egg.
The Shettles method claims that to improve your chances of a boy, you should have sex in positions that allow for deep penetration.
It may not sound very romantic, but the closer to the cervix the sperm are ejaculated, the more likely they are to find the egg.
Here are some sex positions to conceive a boy:
Position #1: Doggy Style
The position most commonly recommended for conceiving a boy is doggy style.
Doggy style allows for deep penetration, and is considered the optimum position in which to conceive a boy.
You should kneel on all fours, and have your partner enter you from behind.
You could also adjust this position so that you are kneeling or leaning over a raised surface, if you prefer.
Position #2: Standing Up
Another position for deep penetration is standing up.
According to some gender swaying experts, they believe boy sperm are given an advantage in this position.
This is because they can swim faster than female sperm, in the race against gravity to reach the egg.
For this position, your partner may be able to lift you up, or you prefer to lean against a wall.
Position #3: Straddling
Ask your partner to lie or sit up on the bed, sofa, or wherever you choose.
You should straddle him and lower yourself onto him.
This position allows for deep penetration, but with the added benefit of you being in control.
If your partner has a large penis, or you feel discomfort when trying the positions above, you may prefer to be on top.
This will allow you to control the depth of penetration.
How To Conceive A Boy #2: What To Eat To Conceive A Boy
It’s time to go bananas!
One study claimed a diet high in potassium, and sodium, favoured the conception of a boy.
Specialist in mammalian biology at Exeter University, Fiona Mathews, said, “We were able to confirm the old wives’ tale that eating bananas and so having a high potassium intake was associated with having a boy, as was a high sodium intake.”
Be careful though, bananas are one of the worst fruits for carbohydrate content (meaning it will spike blood sugar levels).
If you have diabetes, or want to avoid gestational diabetes, go easy on the fruit. Stick to berries instead.
As for sodium, sprinkle himalayan salt on your foods, or perhaps consider stocking up on electrolytes.
Avoid those sugary sports drinks from the supermarket and look for a low sugar electrolyte (ask a natural health practitioner).
Electrolytes are fantastic for pregnancy and in the post-natal period.
How To Conceive A Boy #3: Male Sperm And Cycle Timing
Because male sperm is the faster of the two, Shettles suggests having intercourse as close to ovulation as possible.
If you have sex several days before ovulation, the less resilient male sperm may die off.
This leaves more female sperm to fertilise the egg.
Not sure how to tell if you’re ovulating or not?
It’s a good idea to start charting your monthly cycle.
Also, around ovulation time, you can use ovulation test kits (like pregnancy test kits) to see if you’re ovulating.
These ovulation test kits are very popular.
Also, check out our article on signs of ovulation.
How To Conceive A Boy #4: Sperm And Your Partner’s Underwear
You may already know the underwear a man wears can affect sperm production.
So this is something you may not want to mess around with, especially if the male partner has fertility issues.
Tighter underwear causes to scrotum to reach a higher temperature, reducing the number of sperm.
Boxer shorts are the best underwear if you want to conceive a boy.
Tighter underwear apparently favour the survival of the more resilient female sperm.
How To Conceive A Boy #5: Female Orgasm Is Key
There’s a popular argument that female orgasm plays an important role in conceiving a boy.
Some sources claim that during a female orgasm, an alkaline secretion is released into the vagina.
This alkaline secretion gives male sperm an increased chance of survival.
To increase your chances of having a boy, you should orgasm before your partner ejaculates.
Struggling with orgasm?
Female orgasm is difficult for some women (and men) to achieve.
A resource I recommend to my friends and others who want to become skilled in orgasm is Jason Julius’ course on female orgasm.
Easily offended? Don’t click the link – the landing page of Jason’s website uses strong language.
But in his course, what Jason teaches is totally respectful – it’s not sleazy. It’s doesn’t contain any nudity (he uses a mould to demonstrate).
Instead, it offers some very effective tips for giving women amazing orgasms (according to… a friend). Opt in for the free video, and you’ll get details of his course.
How To Conceive A Boy #6: The Babydust Method
The Babydust Method
is a more recent book on the market. If you want to know how to conceive a boy, this book is an essential read.
The Babydust Method, written by Kathryn Taylor, claims to be based on the latest, scientific research, and has a bunch of raving fans.
Kathryn has a Bachelor of Science in Microbiology, Immunology, and Molecular Genetics.
In The Babydust Method, she discusses egg polarity, pH, and acidic/alkaline/ion diets.
Kathryn’s approach involves a combination of precise timing and frequency, which has been proven to work in a published clinical study.
Here are some of the many rave reviews from readers:
“I love the science behind this. After 3 girls my husband and I wanted to try one more time for a boy. We followed the very simple instructions and 2 weeks ago we found out we are expecting our first son!!! Highly recommend this book to couples.” – Ashleigh
“We were really hoping to give our son a brother and thought it couldn’t hurt to give it a try! We found out we were expecting after the first attempt – and we are getting another son! This book is super easy to read and it’s probably the easiest method you could ever try as well.” – Airanp
You can grab a copy from Amazon.
You can also check out Dr. Shettles best selling book, How to Choose the Sex of Your Baby.
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This is quite informative! Am gonna try this in future. Thank you
I’ve been obsessed trying to get a baby girl to follow my already 2-year-old boy that I followed all the tips above. I know that even with science, it all cannot be guaranteed but I at least wanted to say that I tried should I fail. I also looked up guides on pickbabygender.com/girl (I would recommend visiting this site also! They have a section for boys too). I’m due next month and I’m happy to say that… it’s going to be a girl! So, thank you for this 🙂
I’m trying to have a boy did this really help you to make a baby boy?
Yes, I’m pregnant with a boy and I am certain that I got pregnant by being on top and having a very intense orgasm, which is supposed to aid in “cervical dipping”.
Thank you so much for this!! I needed this it worked for me
Did you intercourse in the 14 day of the period
Is it a baby girl?
yes. the last sentence she wrote says that she’s due next month and that it’s going to be a girl.
Congrats.
we tried to diets and the alkeline thing we got pregnant and had miscarriage so no more not doing it again as have tried the ivf gender selection as well so both times it did not work. we have a couple of beautiful girls not boy but we will now move on and love them and ourselves knowing we tried. but have the heartbreak of not having the boy and a miscarriage.
I have 6 girls and did ivf for a boy but miscarriage I feel how your feeling
I my self have 3 girls tried ivf gender selection i missed carried ! We want to go trough another ivf gender slection what do you think ? I realy want a baby boy !!
I really want to try the ivf with gender selection. Where i can go for ivf with gender selection? Please help me if you don’t mind.
The hints are so good .I’m going to try them in future
I really need to try things..
Hi please help me .im the mother of two girls and and now im planing for boy.please help me give me gurantee tips for a boy.
Right a week after ur period. U guaranteed to get a boy lol.. I got one being on birth control and morning after pill. All failed . I had my last period on the 17 th nd sex 6 days later and was pregnant with a boy lol
Start of periods or end of periods
Oh my god I really want a baby boy will be very happy if I conceive a baby boy.
How?
there is some chemistry involved, you need to do some test to control the pH.
1st step. Make your body ph alkaline 7.5,check out on YouTube that how you can check your body alkaline by using a litmus paper(litmus paper available in amazon. Com)
How to make alkaline .?eat alkaline based food you will get list in google.
2nd step. Avoid pollution and do not consume alcohol.
3.Do not have sex for long time before periods.
4 . Have sex like doggy style (penetration important).
5.Drink black coffee before sex (for men).
6.Have sex when there is no moon.
7.avoid dairy products.
8.eat zinc based food like oyester.
9.let the men empty first.
10.tell your men to take time for shoot (or empty….) this will give good quality sperm.
11.after sex female should keep a pillow under her hip and sleep for 20min.
12.Have sex after 7days of periods ex – “if your period’s end on 7 try to have sex on 14.
13.Mens interest is important rather than female on the day of sex.
Dnt ask questions start doing and send me good news))
I tried all, also had a girl.
I have heard orgasm together may give you a Girl.
No orgasm together is more likely to have a Boy.
I have asked some people and found this to be true . Thanks !
I’ve had zero orgasm 2 times and have 2 girls.
Is this all informations are for baby birth of only boy?
Will try thanks!
can i get pregnant for baby from 13th, 14th, 15th and 16th day of my period. please advice urgently.
I hope everyone here realizes that these are just theories. There is no proven way to choose the sex of your baby.
I have two babe boys they are twins mwa mwa mwa
Use the above tips and you will surely get a boy. I tried them and they I was surprised it worked have sex on the 14th day of your cycle or on the ovulation day. All the best. My boy 1 month 2 wks.
Hi there may I ask What do you mean by 14th day (is it having sex 7 days after you period finesh what is ovulation means ?
no- most women ovulate on or near the 14th day of their cycle… which means you start counting the following day after your period ends. so 14 days after the last day of your period is what that means. some women who have cycles that are usually longer than the average 28 day cycle will ovulate a little later than 14 days. a better way for women who are trying to track and pinpoint their ovulation can just subtract 14 days before the first day of their period to figure out when they ovulated. for example- if a woman started her period on january 15, she would subtract 14 days back and assume she ovulated around january 1st. it all depends on how long your monthly cycles are. “day 14” is just the textbook average of a female cycle. everyones different
That is incorrect.. your cycle begins when your period begins.
this is wrong, to count the 14 days …..u must start from the the day of ur menstruation buy this is usually applied to people who have 28 days circle.
14 days after you start your period is usually when women ovulate. And ovulation is when the women’s body releases an egg in the uterus to await daddies sperm
Hi there,
I’ve tried that too, 14 days after menstruation, start counting on the first day of menstruation. It worked, My handsome cutie (boy) is 14 years old. Best of luck
I’m also a mother of girls and wants to have a boy. I need tips to help me out. Thank you.
That’s awesome I’m glad to hear that. I have a baby boy also by doing this.
the same thing happened to me, except on accident. my husband and i only had sex 1 or 2 times that month over the course of two days (once a day) because I was out of town for work for the majority of that month. after doing my math & knowing my due date, we had sex on the exact day that I must’ve ovulated and either the day before or immediately after i ovulated the other day. i’m 99.9% sure i know which time did the trick, but either way, we had sex doggy-style both times like this article suggests.
Hey what baby did you deliver
Thanks Selina I will definitely try that…
Need a boy will try this .
Nobody can help you in this matter, go for IVF
we did a ivf and it did not work and also tried gender selection by a ivf co did not work so we have given up. we already have a couple of beautiful girls. but no boy.
In ivf it will be sure …..
I’m also a mother of two girls and wants to have a boy. I need tips to help me out. Thank you.
Have sex in full moon nights as indian belives.
Tried all if above and am pregnant with a girl 🙂 so not convinced
Same here. We did all these and now we are pregnant with our 3rd girl.
Sorry I know it sucks to not get what you want after so much efforts.
Same 4th girl lol
Hi Vanessa, you may be having wrong ovulation calculation. a week after last menses works for people with 28days circle, if circle is 30 – 34 it can’t work for boy. don’t worry your fourth baby will be a boy.
God’s time is the best time
True
True. God’s time is the best. So, whatever you’re trying, just back it up with prayers which is what I’m doing now and I pray I’ll come testify here in Jesus’ name
Same here. Cause on my last pregnant I tried every trick in the book to conceive a boy but I gave birth to a girl an now I’m pregnant again will only trust in God for a son
am quite surprised that ppl would post articles on how to conceive a boy!!! this is pathetic and disappointig that in a world where woman are competing shoulder to shoulder, eduated women are wanting to know on how not o have their own gender and have boys! just ridiculous and pathetic that your site would put such an article!!
A lot of people hope to have a son. NOTHING was sad about hating your daughter or killing/aborting her and throwing her in a dumpster because girls suck…its just an article about trying your best for a son.
who are you to tell someone what they can and cant hope for? Maybe a family has 3 girls and is trying one last time and hoping to add a little boy to their family. Maybe grandma is dying and you hope to give her a grandson before she goes. Maybe grandpa is gone and you want to give your son his name. Maybe there is not one boy in the family and a change would be nice. Maybe girls in the family have a genetic condition. Girls are fun, but so are boys and any father would love to pass on his last name. There are plenty of people who would hope to have a girl over a boy. get over yourself. you have no idea why someone would hope for a boy, and really its none of your business. They will love any gender they get, but everyone can have thoughts or preferences for one over the other. You cant really control what gender you have, and i would hope everyone reading this would already know that but you can do certain things to help you.
Thank you!! Jeez.. Everything is such a sensitive, offensive issue these days. I have a daughter. My husband and I want one of each. He was an only child, I was not. I had a wonderful relationship with my brothers, growing up. If we have another girl, great! If we have a boy, still great! She will have a buddy either way. We’d just like to have both. (And our daughter loves dinosaurs and Spider-Man and race cars just as much as she loves dolls and jewelry and sparkles.) We definitely aren’t discriminating.
I totally agree!!! I was sad reading some of these posts about women being sad for a 3rd girl and honestly I have 3 girl and I love every piece of them! Do I want to try again for a boy? Yes, but if God gives me another girl I will be just as blessed and I love her as much as my other 3 who I absolutely adore by the way!!! If you are really going to spend your pregnancy upset if you find out it’s a girl then don’t find out! Wait until the baby is born and with all the excitement you won’t care! If your baby is healthy nothing else in the world will matter! But don’t make your baby who is inside you feel the sadness that you think you feel for having the opposite sex. Be excited either way and be thankful that Gid gave you a healthy baby! Every child is a blessing and they each deserve to be loved and cherished equally!
Ashley!!! I have read your comment and am thrilled. Am a mother of 3adorable girls too, i love them unconditionally. Am planing for another baby and praying for a son, but I live it with God to decide on what he will give me and i will surely receive either a girl or a boy!!! We all love kids but wishing for a brother in the family is something every woman would wish to have. Any advice!!!!
Hi I also have two beautiful girls and looking for boy so someone suggested e to take meri CV one for harmons change..should I try for that
I agree. You are great.
God bless you for this reply
Well said all the best
Look my daughter had 5 girls before she had her 1st boy and we love them so very much know matter what. But she tried a few things about what other people said for having a baby boy and I’m proud to say it worked for her 2 times.
J Smith yes thank you!! Not that I owe an explanation but things do happen! I have a boy and a girl from my previous marriage and a girl with my current husband and he would like a boy. We aren’t going to continue having baby after baby in HOPES of a boy so that’s why I read the article to see if something could help. If that makes me pathetic then pathetic I shall be lol
Yes, we also have 3 girls and after 7 years from our last child my husband and we decided to go ahead and try for a boy. No matter what we get, we will still love our child unconditionally, our children will always feel loved by us
My twin brother died and I want a son that can remind me of him and i can name the boy my brothers middle name which happens to be a one time family name so I agree lol I won’t get pregnant until early 30s and I’m 20 lost my twin at 19 we looked identical as boy girl and my genes make my family look the same so I definitely want a boy to give life to what’s left in me as my brother
As long as my children are healthy AMEN
Totally agree I’ve got 3 girls that are all disabled and really want to have another to my hubby of 3 year as he doesn’t have any of his own kids fair enough he is great with my kids but I wouldn’t want to rob him of having a new born of his own. But I’m so scared to get caught pregnant in case I have another girl not that she wouldn’t be loved but because I must have some sort of gene that I can’t carry girls well and they end up with a disability.
Well said
Thank you for posting this. I have 2 beautiful healthy girls and would love to have a son. I always wanted a girl and a boy. That was just a wish that I started out with. But suffice it to say my husband and I are so happy with our little girls. However in West Indian culture, boys tend to look after their mothers while girls usually look after their fathers. I already see this with our 3 year old…her father could get a paper cut and she’s right there to kiss it better! I guess it’s also how they are raised…but I am the eldest of 2 girls in my family so having a boy would be different on all accounts for me. Plus my husband’s family only has 2 grandsons bearing his family name so this would be nice to add a 3rd boy to balance things out a bit. Of course the financial aspect of having a 3rd baby has made us decide to hold off for now. So even though I didn’t have a son that doesn’t mean I don’t value my girls more than life itself. As a matter of fact I think my husband sees how expensive it is to have girls even at this age (3 years old and 9 months old) so his reasoning is we have to be able to provide everything a girl needs and wants before we can think of having another baby….he’s all about spoiling his girls! (He initially wanted a boy but something tells me he isn’t interested in having a boy at all anymore….I haven’t asked him though.) Anyway everyone’s reason for wanting a boy or girl baby isn’t anyone else’s business. Sure some people have backward ideas around gender preference but others just have simple ideas around how they want to “build” their families. Again thank you for posting this.
Great Thinking.
Thank you for standing up for the ability to share our opinion on this site! I’d say wanting a boy to pass on the family name is completely fine, good example, look how monarchy’s worked threw history. After you have 3 girls its totally understandable to want a boy!
Tell me about it I have 4 girls and 1 miscarriage ☹
Hi Cherry, I don’t think this is a sexist issue. I already have s beautiful little girl, and now my husband and I would like a boy – is it so wrong to want one of each? My husband wants a son to do all the things his father did with him, but he still loves and cherishes our daughter too. I’m sure just as many people are looking up “how to have a baby girl” too.
Thank you for saying this. It’s disgusting and sexist to try to have one sex over the other. It’s a child. If you want one over the other you shouldn’t be having kids. And ps GIRLS can carry the family name. I am.
It’s completely normal. We’ve two girls and would love a boy to complete our family. It’s human nature
Yow see so small portion of everything. Isn’t it ? It takes lot more maturity to understand situations and then pass judgement. Can you eat just sweet or just salt every day ? DIfferent day you have different preferance. Similarly someone might alreay have a girl playing around in home with little barbie and kitchen items. May be now father wants to play footbal and cricket also with a small one in his family ? Whats wrong ?
Amen to that! these people are just miserable and find fault in anything.
For me i do already have a little boy, and i think he would like to have a brother. he has no biological cousins, most of his step cousins are girls, and his biological father abandoned us and i’m married to a new man now who is wonderful and has no children of his own yet. he’s a guys guy and would probably love to have a son to carry on his name. because we are traditional like that. we aren’t rich, and for us having another boy would be saving money. i’m even planning on conceiving in the summer so that my baby will be born in the spring so that the new baby (if it is a boy) can use all of my first childs hand me down clothes and toys and other things that i have saved despite wondering if i would ever have a child again. i think my existing son who is four would benefit the most from having a baby brother to relate to. he seems kind of lonely sometimes. so before you pass judgment on the parents, think of the existing hypothetical siblings of the yet to be conceived child who go up to their mommy every day and say “mommy i want a baby bwudder to pway twains wif me” with their sweet little faces and their big sad eyes and how their mommies tear up and wish they could do whatever they could to bring joy to their existing child by telling them that they are having a brother to play trains with. people who want to try to conceive a specific gender are not necessarily only thinking of themselves, they may be thinking of their finances, their home size, the amount of bedrooms available for siblings to share, reusing saved baby items to save money, and most important of all fulfilling the wish of a child you already have. i know when i was a little girl and my mother was having her second child all i wanted was a sister. and then she was born. and i had someone to play dress up with. so get off your knowitall high horse and your pre judgement about the types of people who read these articles. my child has even told me he wants to name his new brother henry or james or thomas after his favorite train characters. and i think it’s adorable. if i have a girl we will be just as happy. but we’ll need a bigger place, more money for girl stuff and clothes, and a soft way to break the news to our pre-k son that it’s a girl. and possibly a tougher road ahead of us as i combat the kinds of toys and media culture pushed on available to little girls that i’m sure relatives will ignorantly provide for her as birthday presents which i already disapprove of. i.e. monster high (creepy), and brats dolls that look like little sluts but all the 6 year olds have them. and teeny tiny shorts and mini skirts that i’m sure she’ll want to wear but is not going to (yes they even have those for toddlers), but that’s all the stores have for little girls…so yes i always wanted a girl growing up, but these days i would see it as a much more challenging road. plus i’m more of a tom-boy myself and i feel very comfortable with my son and other little boys. i find little girls at the play ground to be bossy, shrill, dramatic and theatrical, petty, cliquey and materialistic for the most part. not to mention mostly acting way too grownup for their age. . all things that i never was as a little girl which is why i hung with the boys. and i’m not sure that as a parent that i have all the tools and personality to handle those things. i’m 9 years older than my husband and i don’t have many childbearing years ahead of me so i need to make it count if i only get one shot. i’m completely cool with my kid making poopy jokes sticking boogers in my face and being a mommas boy. I love him so much i’d like a second version of him in a way. and see there are all manner of reasons people could have for wanting what they want. keep negative opinions to yourself.
Thank you. Damn feminists are always trying to ruin everything.
I’m a girl, married and have three daughters and a son. I not only carry my Father’s name but also make it our children’s second family name.
Exactly for what you said, that girls can’t carry the family name
Lol Jessica (and Cherry)… “Disgusting” you say? Lol that’s pretty funny bc you’re the only one exhibiting sexism here. Obviously you don’t realize this but you’ve very clearly revealed yourself as the classic feminist you are…so classic in fact I had to write this comment in hopes of you seeing it despite being so out of date..
Basically what you sound like to all of us non-sexist / normal / emotionally mature people:
“Ugh…this world sucks, SO sick of women being oppressed and not artificially/politically treated as equals, or better yet as superiors to men like I so desperately want..ugh, f*** men they are the worst..anything not overly favoring women or supporting men is an absolute ATTACK on women everywhere! all of us feminists like to pretend that it’s sexism we’re against when we attack men and culture bc our feelings are hurt and we don’t think it’s fair – but really were the ones being sexist, we’re just to brainwashed / stupid to see the hypocrisy in our thoughts/feelings/words…Ugh..stupid men and stupid world..ugh..when will it end..ugh..!”
How about next time before you make a classic knee-jerk liberal response, you take the time to read what people are actually saying, consider their opinion, and learn to respect people’s individuality and free will to have personal choice (after all who’s life is it, yours?? or is it theirs?) that way you don’t come off like an entitled, weak, irrational little brat (dare I say, idiot?) who doesn’t even see past her surface level assumption of the matter but merely regurgitates her own emotionally fueled bullshit perception of the world when it doesn’t even apply…
It’s beyond absurd to try and classify (more like dismiss) someone else’s preference (whom you don’t know) as disgusting/sexist simply bc that’s the lense you’re viewing from…totally disregarding that people see things differently than you..and guess what sweets – it’s their RIGHT. They want a boy? Cool. They want a girl? Cool. They want one of each? FINE. Who cares, that has nothing to do with sexism..jjjeeeez lady get a grip.
Ok thatd be a great start…thanks.
And if you want to do us all one better – don’t be predictable and vote for the hildabeast – she’s evil and an absolute criminal – news flash: she doesn’t really give a shit about you or any other females so don’t be so gullible to fall for that nonsense..instead, take your head out of the gutter and VOTE TRUMP.
P.S. Its beyond comical to picture you with your soon to be husband (or distant / non existent man you’re planning for) explaining to him that his last name can’t be carried forward despite him being a man bc you reject the “sexist” aspect of culture/tradition and instead feel justified in using your last name even though you’re depriving him of something no man should be deprived of, all so you can satisfy your feminist desires/agenda….llllooooolllllllllll
That is seriously awesome shit. #TooGood
Well said:)
While i agree with most of the things you said (MINUS TRUMP PART), in the end you sort of ended up doing exactly what she did. You made assumption about her political views and you criticize it before understanding or knowing any facts.
You also assumed that she must be liberal- I didn’t read anything from her statement that would indicate that she is or isn’t. “deciding” or swaying of the gender of your baby can be seen as “pro-choice” and her argument against it can be viewed as conservatism.
In short i think you could have made your point (which i agree with) without the name calling. Yes i do realize she started the name calling but two wrongs don’t make a right.
its 2017 and well into the trump presidency, so i don’t need to tell you how morally bankrupt he is…. but i knew that well before he started running for president, so to each its own.
I am the last male in my family I need to have a boy to carry on our last name I was the youngest of 4 children all bein girls except for myself. My uncles all had girls it either carries on with me or dies with me. I have a beautiful daughter who is almost 2 my wife only wants 2 kids so for our sake I am hoping for a boy if I get another daughter I will still be just as happy, but the name dies with me.
Exactly. That is the SAME with my husband, he is the only boy with 4 (technically 5, but the first daughter died shortly after birth) sisters, the only one left to carry on the name unless we can get a boy. That, and growing up in a house with 3 females and no real dad, and now living in a house with 3 females, he would really like another dude around, lol.
Well I guess you’ve never heard of the female presenting, life threatening genetic conditions that some people need to avoid? Having a girl may be disastrous for them. Do some research before you yank out the sexism card.
I have two girls already and would like to have a boy to carry on my husbands family name, this comment is somewhat naive. I’m very thankful for articles such as these. Women are great, but we need men to recreate!
Cherry,
Wow! this entire thread was really helpful until I had to read your post. You are the only pathetic one here complaining on a thread to obviously happy people inquiring about conceiving a boy. You are obviously an ignorant brat who has been spoiled throughout their life to not understand how good you have it in this world. There are countries that only allow you to conceive one child and some of the people that live in these countries will kill their baby if its not the gender they wanted. You should be so grateful that we can even have a conversation about this. The people that post on this thread that live in a country that even allows you to have as many children as you want are very fortunate and no one needs your depressing negativity.
hi.thanks a lot for ur detailed info.its a lot of help.You mentioned in ur above response dat having sex a week after ur period guarantees a boy conception.is dis a week frm d start of ur period or d end of ur period? Secondly,does one wait for d week to run before having intercourse or can sex be had within d week? thanks.
I tried all these the 1st time round and had a girl as my 1st born. 7yrs later tried these positions again & had a boy. 2yrs later tried them again & 3rd time round i am 31wks & having a boy ☺ so not quite sure?? Lol if these techniques work think its either way? Lol..be happy & be blessed
I saw my period on the 2nd of this month,please which date is exactly my ovulation. I have 2daughters already, need a boy now.thanks
How long is your cycle usually?
I have one baby girl now with the age of two years,now we are planning for a baby boy so please suggest some better things and to conceive a boy which date is better after period
Try NOT to orgasm together , This has worked for me 2 Boys
and 1 Girls. It may work or May Not. Best Wishes to you !
All above wayz n’ techniques,are thru GOD’S WILL,. ThanX Dr,..
Yes!!!! My exact thoughts….
True for believers,like my case it was surely God’s will ,I am happy..Though I also need a boy to balance the equation of 2/2..one has no play mate
I have a son age if 17, now i feel like i need to have his brother plis i need yr advise.
I’m a mother of two girls,tell how to have a baby boy. I’m 36years old
Am a mother of 2pretty girls and we r planning on having a 3rd baby an we r looking forward to having a baby boy.
Hello Pam, If your menses stop on 12 for example count seven days on 18th, 19th, 20th & 21st hav sex let your partner be on top after he empty relax don’t stand up. But you must believe God. Thanks
if i see my menstruation on 25th when will my ovulation start, and when is it right to have sex to get a boy
if you’re menstruation on 25th, then you’re ovulation period is 11st, then it is better to do Love on 11,12,13, for conceive a good baby boy…
If your last menses is 7th for example hav sex on 14th, 15th & 16th for boy, if you are believing for a girl hav sex on 10th, 11th & 12th for girl. Above all believe God! Thanks.
Please am hoping to have a baby boy,after havig sex before ovulation.are my free to have sex any day after my ovulation?
Please I have 3 girls already hoping to have a boy.
Is there any special dietary requirements to aid male sperm to fertilise the egg ?
I will try my best to have a baby boy
i have two girls one is 7th class and second is 1 class, we want boy Please give better tips for boy born we required tips in Marathi language for better understanding.
Pleas suggest urgent.
Thanks ,
i have already 1 girl .if ovulation kit is positive which day sex is best for baby boy?
Hey did u find out which day is better…if yrs reply plz
Wait 24 hours and do sex. Worked for me.
I have one girl i need one boy please best suggesion
I want baby boy plz suggest the best tip
I want a baby boy. My last menses was on 22nd of November. When should I try?
pls I have 2girls already am hoping 4 a boy. I saw my menses on 12 of November.
my last menses was 12 nov and we try to conceive after 23rd nov….now I missed my period in dec…..what can be chance of conceiving baby boy or baby girl….my period circle are 28 days..
My last mc date 24 to 26 June 2016. Pls tell me confirm ovulation date for baby boy.. …I am 31 yr old.
Plzzz help
we have a baby girl age 2yrs and i want a boy what is the best date of having sex with my wife in order to get a boy?
Hi dear my last period nov 29 2015 my most cycle time is 28 days my ovalution timing on dec13&14 we had sex both days try to concieve boy I don’t know it s work or not but some body can help me for boy plz
I have a doughter aged two years and i need boy advise
this should be so educative, wanna give it a try!!!!!!
So what’s wrong with conceiving a girl? Shouldn’t we be more concerned about conceiving HEALTHY babies, regardless of gender?!
Hi I am a mother of two girls. And now I want a planing for boy.what should I do?please help me. Thank you xxxxxxx
Try counting your cycle and make 3-month-plan, start with first attempt in just one day, if not pregnant, the second month, go to the second attempt from day one and two, if still not pregnant in month #3, try the last attempt, make it from day one, two and three.
i want to have a strong baby boy bt i have a 4months baby gal am doing this for my lovely husband its wat will make him happy plzzzzz am on my knees help me u know wat i mean wen a man wants a boy ladies thnx am waiting
Hi I am A mother of two girls. And I want a planing for boy baby please help me
Oh my GOD people, did any of you go to school? GENETICS is what determines baby’s gender, NOTHING you do can influence this.
If the sperm that get into the egg is X it will be a girl, if it’s Y, it will be a boy, it’s as simple as that. That’s how things work.
Unless you genetically engineer your baby, you will NEVER be able to choose if you’re having a boy or a girl.
Yes, Alice, you are correct. If XY gets to the egg first, it will be a boy and vice versa for a girl. However after having 3 boys, I did a lot of research and discovered that the condition of the woman’s body at the time of conception can influence gender. I “swayed” for a girl with a tailored diet and a particular type of exercise and now have a girl. No, it was not a 100% guarantee like PGD, however it “upped” my chances. Shettles does not work, 2 of my boys are Shettles opposites. If others are reading this and are interested, please do not follow the wives tales listed above. Do your research. There are lots of sites dedicated to supporting and understanding other women who desire gender balance in their families.
i saw my menses on 19th when will i have sex for baby boy pls
Hi i have two girls and one boy want to have twins how can i do it.
I have a doughter aged two years and i need boy.
Please advise.
Thanks..
Thank you for the info. It’s very helpful. Just wanna say there is nothing wrong with this, it’s gods made. It’s just some people found the way to count what God can’t come down n tell us. Thank you.
I have two girls and I wanna boy. We all have girls from both sides so I wanna have a boy run in around now. My cycle 30-34 days
We are doing sex on each ovulation date for 3 months but still I m not pregnant. I have already a 5 yr old daughter and I want baby boy now. Plz guide. My last period was on 18th March. Wen to do sex for baby boy.
It is normal to fall pregnant in the first 12 months of trying. If it takes longer, then you may wish to see a doctor.
I get married 3 months ago I’m 35 I want a baby boy My period are irregular this time started on 18thmarch and end on 27 th march last time I get period on10feb to15 feb &in jan on10 &dec on5th pls suggest me the days of this month thanks
I just realised that the father of my daughter wears tight boxer… Maybe this article is true after all.
if you have a 28 day cycle then count the first day of your period as day 1. from day one count 14 days then have sex. this will get you a boy. as this is your highest firtility day to conceive a boy. i have three girls aged 22, 18, and 8. and we are pregnant again .and at age 42 we are having a boy!
If eggs are fertilized outside, as in a test tube, can the doctor tell which are boys, and only implant boy embryos? I’m past childbearing age, and just curious.
Thanks.
I can’t say for sure if these methods are 100% accurate for everyone, but my husband and I tried them for one month and we are now expecting a little boy in October. We used the Dr. Shettles method among other methods that we found online after doing a little bit of research. My doctor told me that the ‘drinking coffee beforehand method’ is actually not a good thing for getting pregnant in general. I would have to agree there is a little science involved in having a boy or girl. Either way, all that matters is that we have a healthy baby. But I won’t lie, I’m very excited that our first baby will be a boy. 🙂
hi av been trying to get pregnant for the first time in one year know and i would like to have a baby boy as my first child plz help.
I’ve been trying and trying nothing is happening
I’m a mother of 4 girls and I would love a boy. If I had another girl I would love her just the same
Hi,
Just would like to know what are my chances of getting pregnant with a boy, if I had intercourse with my husband 1 day before my menstrual cycle kicked in.
Thanks
Am married for almost 5 years and is coming close to 30years old with no kids yet. My hubby and I enjoyed well our life as a couple and I think it’s time to reach a new level. I was born in a large family with 4 children and is looking for same. I hope my first baby is a boy and that’s y am here reading. But if it’s a girl, I will still be very happy because the most important at the end of the day is that the child is healthy.
Now I want to add after reading few comments from people stating they want a boy so the husband can play with him and teach him “boys” stuffs as well as the kid will keep the family name. I was a tomboy when young and my dad taught me everything same as with my brothers. It helped, I was great in sport, never had to depend on a guy to change the tyre of my car or doing its servicing, changing a bulb in my house etc.. Please don’t wait to have a boy to do some stuffs and treat your daughter same as the boys. Loving is one thing, teaching her those “boy” stuffs can make her stronger and independant. Let her play with her dolls, but let her also get dirty playing outdoor. Don’t think 2016 is modern, think that in 30years, the world will not be as now and better make her ready for the world 😉
Good luck to all who are trying to conceive and congratulations for those already pregnant or gave birth. Wish you all plenty of healthy children 🙂
Hi, pls am amothert of 2 girls and looking forward to having a boy. My last menstrual was on 22 august 2016, When should i have sex for a boy
Am a mother of three girls i would like to have a boy pleas
I am a mother of three girls and I pray to God to have a boy! I was told that at the end of menstrual cicle for 4 days should have sex and it gets a boy…let’s hope my friend and her sister in low had their boys in this way.
Please am so desperate for a baby boy my period starts by 24or25 what date am I expected to have sex for a baby boy..
When the period finish have sex for four days …
I am surprised at d level of ignorance out there.How can u blame someone for wanting one sex over d other for a particular pregnancy?There are obviously varied reasons and circumstances that determine d parent’s wish to have a particular sex.There is nothing sexiest about it at all.When pple take their wish to have a particular sex to d point of aborting d opposite of their wish etc that’s wen we will all have issues.The authors stated categorically that a child of any particular sex is a gift from God and that their methods are only believed to increase d chances of delivering a boy.Frankly, it is obvious that the article addresses both how to increase d chances of delivering a boy and a girl.If u consider d opposite what is said about getting a boy, that will work as well on how to get a girl so d choice is with u actually except your prejudiced mind won’t let u figure that out…haha.
Hi I’m married for three years now and i have a baby girl but my husband says the next time I conceive it should be a baby boy or else he will get another woman to give him a baby boy and now that thing keeps on worrying me because I don’t want to loose him to some one plz advise me on how to get/conceive for a baby boy actually the best methods of getting a baby boy.thanks
Explain to him that it is he who determines the sex of the baby, not you.
Perfect some men are so ignorant
i have 3 girls already trying to conceive boy but my problem is that i don’t have regular monthly cycle, my period always change, what can i do in this situation becos boy is important to me. please i need your help. or can i use the current month i will see my period and calculate my ovulation.
Use the fertility friend app an ovulation test and a progesterone test. Follow above steps.
So if my period is normally around the 23-24th do I count back 14 days from there an that’s when my husband an I should try?
I am a father of two girls and we need one boy. So kindly give some tips to conceve a baby boy. In my family we are three brothers and none of them have a baby boy. Is there any other problem with the spems. We need a good advice on this isse.
Thank you
I have my period now should I tried now for a boy? I have 2 girls already and really want a boy. What should I do to increase my chances to get a boy
some people who think that its matter of shame to write this kind of article .
please understand a thing if this thing works at least 40 % then at least 10 % of abortion cases will decreases surely.
and above thing is working 85% n some rare cases i t wont work.
Anyone see correlation with the Chinese birth calendar? I’ve been trying and paying attention to all these things but if I also follow that calendar, I’d have to wait till December…
I have 4 girls already. We are trying for a boy and we have tried all of the above suggestions. I’m almost 10 weeks pregnant so I’ll let u guys know if it worked for me in about 8-10 weeks.
Hi,my mesuration period is not regular (24 days, 21 days,27 days) I have 3 lovely girls and want to try to have a baby boy. What us your advice know m’y mensuration condition? Will appreciate your reply. Thanks
keep a record or you periods and take your temperature and keep a record to determine when ovulating.
Sex closer to day of ovulation increases chances of boy. Missionary style position. Alkaline douche.
It all boils down to timing, ph of vagina, and position. Control these 3 factors as the above book advocates and you will increase you chances of getting the gender you want by about 27% the book says. I know about 5 people who followed Dr. Shettle’s advice and got the boy or girl they wanted.
No one should be victimised for participating in gender choices,actually people have diversified reasons for gender choices,some of which are life saving. I do appreciate God and His amazing works but I strongly feel each has a right to wish for any gender of history/her choice.and do research on the same.I am astonished when some individuals come out to make us feel guilty.
I have 2 daughters whom I love very much and a son who is God’s blessing to me,I never did any of the above to conceive him,I alway’s prayered in my heart..now I want another son to complete my family,I believe in God and also I need to try..All kids are cool and it is very okey to wish or pray for any gender,the most important above all is a healthy baby.To all those who sound judgemental stop it..
I just had my period which ended on 13/07/2017 and I will be very happy if am assisted to have a baby boy.Pls really need help.
I want a boy!
I have a question.
If we do sex continuously after ending periods then is it any chance to get a boy baby
Can someone help me pls.trying for boy.i have three daughter.xx
I had sex 2 days after ovulation and had a girl. Does it mean that it was too late. Maybe sex on ovulation gives a boy.
Hello, I love belllybelly for their advice
How To Conceive A Boy #2: Male Sperm And Cycle Timing. Because male sperm is the faster of the two, Shettles suggests having intercourse as close to ovulation as possible. If you have sex several days before ovulation, then the less resilient male sperm may die off, leaving more female sperm to fertilise the egg.
Hi, if we have sex before one day of ovulation only can raise a chance of having boy
I have five daughters. I try hard every time. Now i am fully satisfied what i have. I am fully focus on my daughters future.
My younger sister is having six boys already n was trying for a girl and finally God gave dem the last baby as girl so is not by our making but God who gives what will suit us. My greatest problem is how to calculate when am ovulating can somebody pls break it down for me for proper understanding.tnx
Please Suggest Best Position, Diet, Sex Cycle,Time For Intercourse having Baby Boy..
I have 3 girls and really would love to have a boy but dont know how to go about it i have tried for so long to get a boy but just seem to have girls i had got pregnant with a boy but sadly lost him at 5 months pregnant im starting to think i may have problems carrying boys