Danielle, I have spoken to my DP, I read out your thread to him. Here is his response. I have worded it slightly nicer than he said it

In his opinion Yes your DH is being unreasonable. He cut the cord first time around, it's only fair you get it this time. For him he felt it wasn't a "huge" deal cutting the cord, whereas for a woman we hold it more symbolic. His words, Get Over It.

On the subject of support, it's simple. You want it, you have it. It's your birth, and your the one that needs the support. Besides that, it's family. You are wanting your mother, not the next door neighbour.

So maybe my DP is different to some of the other males. He was pretty damn useless at supporting me in Tehya's birth, but tbh I think now he was just scared as it was a HB and he'd never witnessed birth before. Luckily for him, after a swift toe in the bum he was better with Abbey.

Goodluck hun and I hope you get it sorted before bubs birth